Sometimes when you're in a relationship you have to endure the pains, because you don't expect everything to be working smoothly for you all the time.
Don't expect what you seen in his or her relationship to be the same with what you seeing in your own because everybody has his own destinies we are not sharing the same destiny and what we like sometimes may not be what the other person like so that's the reasons you don't have to look on to somebody else we of life because everybody has its own page to fill when you fill the other person's lifestyle you definitely going to fail.
Some people in a relationships love to exchange unpleasant words, fight that is when they feel like they are in love, why some people don't like altercation, anything of such disturb their emotions of which sometime crumble the relationship.
In order to have a perfect relationship, you must deal with your emotion, dealing with emotions in the sense that you love to cut your limit don't look into what people's are doing, don't imitate people, be natural in your relationship you are natural, that is the only way you can move your relationship to the next level.
What we mean by being natural is that bring out your real nature, your character that is in you.
Don't try to be or pretend to be what you are not. If you are the angry type, make sure that you bring out the character let your partner know that yes you are the angry type.
If you are the quarreling type make sure that you bring out the character so that your partner will know that you're the quarreling type.
Whatsoever character that is in you, bring it out.
If the person truly love you, he will find a solution to that so that the the relationship can move smoothly.OMOKOSHABAN