No matter how long you have been together there are still some fundamental rules to follow in a relationship to make sure it lasts. Trust me putting them into practice isn’t always easy but believe it’ll guarantee you a long lasting relationship.
So here are 5 sure steps to make your relationship last until marriage:
1. Learn to listen: The single most powerful step you can take to keep a relationship solid? Speak less and listen more. Avoid blames and insults they always lead to bad endings. When your partner is trying to communicate don’t stop them listen and advice if necessary.
When he or she is trying to express himself just let them be don’t shun them instead nod or use a soft “hmm” this shows that you’re concentrating in what they’re saying or about to say. Don’t divide your attention if you’re busy then choose another time take and walk or something.
2. Touch each other
Research shows that human touch aids the release of feel-good endorphins, for giver and receiver. So hold your partner, touch their cheeks and make them feel loved. Take them for a walk touch them in the early mornings and show them how much you care about them.
This will improve the relationship and also the friendship cause it’s better to be friends with your partner that’s a bonus in the relationship cause the relationship will sometimes fade but the friendship remains.
3. Be vocal about things you like
Boredom might trip into a relationship but it’s left for you guys boost the spark. Make sure you know what your partner likes and what he or she doesn’t that will actually go a long way...talk about them make sure you engage in activities
If your partner loved compliments make sure you do that often, tell them you love their new shoes or something, call when they are at work make them feel special. And also learn to say thank you that’s a very good magic word👍.
4. Make sure you stop blaming your partner for everything:
Don’t blame your partner for everything, I know sometimes you’re tempted to blame your partner for the disappointments and wrongs but really don’t, that only makes them feel bad about themselves and put you in the negative side.
So instead try to improve yourself and make yourself better, The true fix: Change yourself. When you address your own flaws and seek the best in your companion, magic happens. Optimism increases. Your partner feels better because he or she feels appreciated, not chastised. And you both feel motivated to change in ways that lead to even more joy.
5. Improve your relationship by learning to relax:
Take a time off , try some yoga that helps , go on vacations this helps a lot. In terms of cooling off this could also improve your closeness and also strengthen the connection.
Sometimes take a day off to be with your partner , go on dates make new memories that helps too. All this and more can improve your relationship.
This are some steps to take to build a strong relationship that could actually lead to marriage. I hope this comes handy sometime...
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